Page Text: Proof. July 3, 2020 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser)
NSFW: This article contains nude pics.
Disclaimer: Everyone here is 18+. I have permission to upload every nude photo. Happy to remove pics/stories – contact me .
There’s heaps of “getting laid advice” on the internet from guys who aren’t actually getting laid all that much. They talk the talk, they tell you exactly what you should and shouldn’t be doing, spit “broscience” at you – but you have no idea if they walk the walk and actually take action on their own advice.
I’m so artistic with my camera angles.
That same concept applies to a tonne of sites on the internet – blogs people write, “expert” articles people post, random comments people make on Youtube. They’ll talk as if they’re an expert – and they might well be – but they don’t provide any proof of their expertise. You’re being expected to blindly trust that the person’s advice comes from actual experience and isn’t just them parroting something they read on a random website somewhere.
You often don’t even know what the person giving the advice looks like, or if they have their shit together in any meaningful way. You have no way of knowing if it’s a successful 30yo guy who actually knows what he’s doing… Or a 15yo kid at home banging away on the keyboard who hasn’t followed a single piece of the “expert” advice he dishes out.
3somes are always good fun.
Browse the net, and you’ll see dieting/exercise articles from women with no pics of themselves anywhere on the site – you have no way of knowing she’s not a 200kg “curvy” woman who’s never followed a meal plan in her life. Pickup Artists charge $1,000/hr with no actual proof they stick their penis inside a vagina. There’s “get rich quick” advice from people who haven’t shown you a screenshot of their bank account. Business advice from people who haven’t given details of any businesses they’ve actually started and made successful.
And 4somes are even better.
The internet is full of unverified experts.
If a guy is talking about getting laid, “proof” means actual photos/videos of him with girls he’s met or screenshots of girls he’s dated/had sex with – not just long unverifiable stories posted on a forum.
And if you yourself have just gotten laid, you’ll massively benefit from showing off your own proof pictures (ask permission/consent first, obviously). Doing so will force you to take getting laid much more seriously, and you’ll be more “all-in” – resulting in you getting laid much more. My lays absolutely skyrocketed when I decided to take myself and my sex life seriously by posting actual proof I was getting laid. As I said here , it’s impossible to get laid a tonne (100+ lays) without going all-in.
Me, after a hell of a lot of years working on myself.
Getting laid is something you should be proud of – something you should brag about. Posting proof pics is your chance to show off and say, “Look what I achieved!”
All of this applies to me too – sure, I coach guys about sex, 3somes, relationships, honesty, gym, fat loss, BDSM, Tinder, style, etc… But do I have proof I get laid?
Some Cool Stuff I’ve Done
Fun stuff I’ve done:
A fucktonne of online lays – stories are below (Tinder, Hinge, OkCupid, Craigslist, POF, Bumble, etc). This has been the vast majority of my lays and it’s the method I’m best at – particularly Tinder/Hinge. Yeah it’s a high number, but I’m in my 30’s – I’ve had plenty of time to rack up the sexcapades. Full disclosure: A huge number of my early lays were overweight/not-super-attractive girls (I started out obese myself and they were the only girls I could get). Nothing against any of them; they were pretty much all cool chicks & good people. Since about 2017 onwards, the girls have been actually cute/hot, as you can see in the photos across my site.
Threesomes with a bunch of different girls. I’ve written about most of them here .
A foursome (MFFF) – I wrote about it here .
I’ve been in a relationship for a few years with my girlfriend Imogen – she’s a truly kickass human being. She’s 22 (we met when she was 18), bisexual & seeks out other girls from her own Tinder/Hinge/etc for us to play with together, and I also bang new girls from my own Tinder. We adore the shit out of each other & constantly push one another to absolutely crush our goals. I love her to bits. She even writes for my site sometimes .
A handful of cold approach lays (walking up to girls during the day on the street/shopping centres/etc and saying “Hey, you’re hot and I had to say hi. I’m Andy” then talking for a bit and asking for a number). Haven’t done as much of this – partly because Tinder/online dating has been so good to me.
Tonnes of BDSM sex – toys, whips, roleplays, the whole 50 shades of grey.
A myriad of interesting adventures (details below) – I’ve had 3somes , been with a few strippers, had sex in public many many times, gotten into BDSM, met some crazies, had sex with a tonne of girls within 30 minutes of meeting them, taught a few virgin girls BDSM. Best of all, I’ve met some really awesome girls who’ve changed me for the better.
A very fun afternoon.
My Current Tinder Profile (Including BDSM)
Here’s the Tinder Profile I’m currently using, including explanations of what I text girls, how I structure my dates, etc.
Here’s my comprehensive guide to How to Get Laid on Tinder , so you can follow in my footsteps.
Why have I chosen to put all this up on the interwebs, where I can be (and am) judged for it? I pride myself on honesty and seeking the truth; I want my site to break down the bullshit & just be real with people. Could you really trust someone who espoused those values if they weren’t a completely open book?
I’m honoured.
Every single nude photo on this page & in every other article on my site are photos I’ve taken together with the girls I date/sleep with.
We all went home and had a 3some afterwards. Good times.
I’ll make this abundantly clear: I ask permission before ever sharing any nude pics of anyone; you should ALWAYS do the same. Read my guide on taking nude pics of girls you sleep with. Just throw out a casual, “Yo, mind if I show your body off to other people?” If you ask, most girls are fine with it.
I also make sure to remove all identifying information from all pics/screenshots; names, faces, locations, phone numbers, I Photoshop out tattoos and birthmarks, as well as anything else that could be used to identify someone. You should always do the same. (In some cases I specifically ask a girl if she’s happy for me to show her face (without blurring it out) here on my site; some girls are totally cool with it and don’t care at all.)
Generally speaking, most girls don’t mind you sharing their photos as long you block out their face completely and any other identifiable information so nobody can tell it’s them. That way it just looks like a nude photo of some random person, rather than her. I always show the photo to them before I upload it to make sure they definitely approve. In short, don’t be a dick.
A Few Fun Stories from Girls I’ve Met
I haven’t written a story about every single time I’ve gotten laid; just the ones that have been the most interesting. Most of these are from about 2017 to the present day.
Important: Bare in mind a couple of the below stories are from several years ago; I’ve changed a hell of a lot since then – especially my mindset on women & people in general. I cringe when I read how immature – and at times downright mean & bitter – I was back then, but my past is an important part of my evolution so it’s important I show it to you. I go into great detail about how my mindset has changed in “You and Me” .
(Some of these links will require you to make a free account on GoodLookingLoser.com in order to view):
Part of a BDSM photoshoot I did in 2019.